I hate writing post but crafty-ish related but I’m so furious! I’ve written on every forum for can find and I still suing feel like this is all out my system!!
MIL is rude, disrespectful, and tried inviting herself into our home for a second time! I mean, who does that??
My MIL OFCOURE! She drives down here after months earlier if trying to invite herself in our house and we discussed with her it wasn’t the best idea. She has been a nightmare since I started dating her son. All she does is not acknowledge my existence or talking behind my back with crazy assumptions! Ex: me, her, and my husband were all at the airport. That’s was this adorable little 14 month old who was walking around and I commented how cute she was. Well, to my MIL that meant I wanted babies and I was going to pressure my husband! Anyone who knows me know I don’t want kids yet, not near my agenda! But that’s the kind of things she twists to make me look bad.
Anyway, we were out to dinner and driving mil and get bf back to our house where there car was parked. She goes “Help me unload.” We asked unload what and she says the blowup bed for the guest room. We had to tell her or decision hasn’t changed, and she goes crazy! She “assumed” our decision changed over time. No, no it didn’t! We’re trying to tell her why this is still true and she’s just going on and on how “You don’t do that to family.” She doesn’t treat me like family though, kind of hypocritic. And she thinks that a mother is above a wife, and that she should be able to stay in the house regaurdless of how I feel.
This woman had made me develope anxiety. Her over controlling behavior and gossips make me extremely uncomfortable. I couldn’t see myself up under her for 5 days in my own home, why should I? I’ve tried countless times to try and get our relationship better. When I moved out of state, I reached out to her again, and we both said we’d make an effort. Three months later, nothing changed. I had to ask my husband to please not make me be locked in my own room out of anxiety from his mom in our house. He agreed and told his mom. Somehow “no” went to “yes” without us knowing causing tonight’s blow up.